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Post by yahoorain on Jan 22, 2009 1:18:45 GMT -5
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Post by harmonium on Jan 22, 2009 5:18:52 GMT -5
Yar. "Gay For Pay". Initially, I was kinda "disturbed" by the thought of 'straight' males doing gay sex. I mean it should take alot of "skills" and "tolerance" to fake that kind of enjoyment for a straight guy to be involved in gay sex especially those doing the bottoming. But after reading quite a bit of comments on this topic, I think it all comes down to "labeling". Like definitions of "straight", "gay" and "bisexual" etc. There are all kinds of people around, so I think the diversity of people's sexual preferences actually break down the "meanings" to these labels. And slowly, I realize that there should not be a big issue if people like them actually get involved with "Gay For Pay" or actually enjoy gay sex even if they do like women. Therefore, because of this, I realize the more I believe in the Kinsey scale. Or maybe I'm pomosexual. Hahaha. |
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Post by lolaruns on Jan 22, 2009 6:33:49 GMT -5
Reminds me of a gay friend I have who will chat up women and sleep with them whenever he is going through a really long dryspell (he has those sort of friendly bear looks that seem to draw in a lot of women who mistake him for a nice, reliable guy  [he is always upfront though about liking guys]). |
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Post by I ♥ Blaine on Jan 22, 2009 9:13:46 GMT -5
I hope someone puts this on youtube!
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Post by darcolover55 on Jan 22, 2009 11:07:00 GMT -5
Kurt Wild has always been really open about doing gay porn and he's always seemed really sweet and honest when interviewed.
I think if he doesn't feel attracted to men in his personal life that's his business.
I think when it comes to porn, if the actors have a connection with each other and make each other feel good, it doesn't really matter whom they might ACTUALLY be attracted to outside of their work.
For me it comes down to having chemistry with the other actor, understanding the anatomy of sex with a man and not being homophobic.
Kurt's a great little porn actor (yes, I've seen a lot of his movies).
He's very hot and sexy and passionate and a really good performer. In the end, I think the only thing that matters is that people are honest with themselves and their partner (male or female).
I think he also has some kids so it's honorable that he's not being all ashamed of the work he's done and is happy to talk about it in order to create better understand.
I then consensual, legal, ethical pornography is a legitimate and healthy part of human sexuality.
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Post by lolaruns on Jan 22, 2009 12:02:30 GMT -5
I have heard a bunch of times that it can actually be a good thing for chemistry and the level of comfort if attraction isn't an issue. Like a woman might feel more relaxed in a romantic scene in a movie with a gay actor because he knows he won't get any ideas and/or that her significant other won't be jealous. Like in a way you can do more because you know that it doesn't mean anything.
(so actually the reverse of "they have so much chemistry, they must be in love in real life", that the chem is there simply because nothing is going on and both see it as nothing will ever go on)
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Post by yahoorain on Jan 22, 2009 18:05:58 GMT -5
lol ya'll I won't turn this into a gay porn blog and I have seen Kurt and AJ in action. And i echo the sentiment, hopefully this is posted somewhere as TTBS will only show a small clip if that...
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Post by Bonobochick on Jan 22, 2009 18:27:33 GMT -5
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Post by yahoorain on Jan 24, 2009 4:08:36 GMT -5
A clip from the show though not the model I would have chosen....
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Post by lucrece on Jan 24, 2009 10:42:16 GMT -5
I saw it, and the show went as I expected: judgement galore. I really couldn't stand it, mostly because these guys were so stupid in explaining their point that it often left them open for audience mockery.
I personally found the "I ain't doing nothing strange for a piece of change" offensive.The "strange" description to gay sex was just so stereotypically homophobic.
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Post by GayTime on Jan 24, 2009 11:17:13 GMT -5
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Post by sheepiefarm on Jan 24, 2009 20:17:42 GMT -5
Ha - I think a "body language expert" would have a field day with Kurt when he was sat alone on that couch. As for being disappointed with the responses these Gay for pay guys were trying to give to justify themselves - Ha - they do sex for a living - hardly an occupation that expands & exercises the intellect  - it's not surprising they don't have the eloquence to debate with any integrity. The rep from the gay "community" - where the fuck did they find him!!!!!!! A nerd with as much sex appeal as a used tea-bag, who probably has issues about gay men fancying str8 guys rather than him So what, if these guys are str8! I find the whole "gay for pay" debate totally Ironic * shrugs* |
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Post by yahoorain on Jan 25, 2009 1:40:43 GMT -5
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Post by I ♥ Blaine on Jan 25, 2009 6:15:51 GMT -5
Tyra is incredibky annoying...WOW.
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